Author: Mind and Love

Crying Masculinity, Mental Health. Mind and Love

Learning to Cry (Part 1)

Masculinity exists on a sliding scale. It’s not definite, it constantly fluctuates from moment to moment. If one of those moments afforded me to tip the scales toward masculinity, establishing my non-crying credentials would definitely have done the trick. Keep in mind, I was never a macho man and never felt the need to amplify those bona fides. However, everyone is different; a comfortable sense of self established by varying degrees of masculine validation.

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Colton Underwood. The Bachelor. Mind and Love.

The Bachelor: The Journey Begins Again

Colton Underwood begins his “journey” to find love on the 23rd season of The Bachelor Monday night on ABC. I can hardly wait. Like most married men, I hide my Bachelor addiction through blaming my wife. You have heard the explanations numerous times from numerous men; “oh, my wife likes to watch it.” “I wouldn’t watch it… but you know… my wife.”

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